Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Spread The Joy

I met Janice Sargent when I was but a small toddler barely diagnosed with cerebral palsy. Janice was an occupational therapist. Janice Sargent is truly one of a kind; she has been there from the beginning, another year and we'll be going on our silver anniversary. At first meeting as a child I wanted to run away. Janice is an eccentric, stubborn woman that made you work, pushed you beyond what you thought you were capable of, and didn’t take no for an answer (really!); as a child with cerebral palsy what I needed most terrified me. I remember dreading appointments and I know for a fact my brother was scared of Janice too. Yet as time progressed I realized what a gem Janice was and what a blessing it was to have the best occupational therapist working with me. Within the school system I dealt with several additional therapists and they paled in comparison to Janice.

When one walks into Janice’s office her walls are covered with testaments of how wonderful the work she does is, photos and notes expressing gratitude from her many patients. Janice became more than just an OT that I’d make appointments with, she became my friend, and she became part of my family. I know others hold the same sentiment. When I was a senior in college I would assist Janice with pool therapy for other children twice a week. I believe it was then that my understanding of how vital my interactions with Janice have been was manifested as I watched her diligently help those children struggle again and again but never giving up on them. Janice for all her eccentric corks has helped pushed me to be the best I could be and never looked upon a disability as a limitation but rather an opportunity. Each life that Janice touches, she touches for the better. Sometimes the visible results from occupational therapy are few or seem small to an observer but when you look in a young child’s eyes when they’ve swum across the pool, balanced on a therapy ball, or in my case touched the thumb to the pinky finger you see a result that is more important and longer lasting; you see confidence and joy because that Janice didn’t stop pushing you even when you thought you never could accomplish the task.

I had a discussion once that there are certain professions that once you find one that you like you never let them go. For your average person the list would include a doctor, plumber, mechanic, maybe a lawyer. For my list my occupational therapist and friend, Janice, will always rank up top with my massage therapist and my dentist (three people I would and do fly to Idaho to see). Little acts can change the world; Janice helps change the world by enabling others to change their little corner of the world. Thank you Janice for spreading joy daily.


Monday, June 29, 2009

Saturday, June 27, 2009

The Fourth of July Came Early This Year

The madness on the Oakland A's field post-game before the fireworks. Now maybe it is because I grew up in Idaho and our fireworks display on the 4th of July would only last a total of ten minutes, without any clear indication of the finale, but the fireworks post A's game were sweet! I was very impressed and really have never seen a fireworks show that good before.
Brianna, Keena, me, Jefferson awaiting the fireworks.


Who else loves this face? Per Keena, this is a very Jess face to pull. She might just be right.
One of the joy of sporting events: very interesting characters at every event. Dude, I love his hair!
With our amazing host, Rach! It is always great and relaxing to watch ball. I really needed to just sit and enjoy a game this week, much appreciated Rach! A special thanks for the Dr. Pepper on ice too. It definitely hit the spot! We heart RH!

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

If we find ourselves with a desire that nothing in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that we were made for another world.

C.S. Lewis

Friday, June 26, 2009

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

I've been a miner for a heart of gold.

Neil Young

*Per Classy Matty

One Week Till Teton Valley

Reasons for me to be excited:
  • Seeing my family
  • Playing with Averina and Sam Jam
  • T. Hammer is getting HITCHED!
  • Golfing
  • Mike and SJ are taking me to Taco Time
Reason for everyone else in Idaho to be excited:
  • You get to see me!
*This list in not all inclusive of the many reasons to be excited.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Joy and Sadness for All

"Every life has peaks and shadows and times when it seems that the birds don't sing and bells don't ring. Yet in spite of discouragement and adversity, those who are happiest seem to have a way of learning from difficult times, becoming stronger, wiser, and happier as a result."

Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Come What May, and Love It," Ensign, Nov. 2008, 26


Inner Workings Of The Stanford Sophomore Mind Part 5

(Stanford Soph)

SUMMER JOYS

I have completed my Stanford Sophomore year. I never expected the blessings. I feel like I need a month to process. Nevertheless, summer is here! A few early summer joys:

1. Breaking out into impromptu singing sessions with my mother
2. Getting thrown onto the couch
3. Walking Route A, (up to the H rock and back)
4. Barco #1 and #2
5. My grandparents' love and laughter
6. Getting caught in the rain
7. Driving under a full rainbow
8. Two dinners on one Saturday night

(Little known factoid: I have always wanted to use nevertheless in an essay.)

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The Tongue Can Be a Sharp Sword

Real charity is not something you give away; it is something that you acquire and make a part of yourself. And when the virtue of charity becomes implanted in your heart, you are never the same again. . . .

Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don't judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone's differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn't handle something the way we might have hoped. Charity is refusing to take advantage of another's weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. . . .

None of us need one more person bashing or pointing out where we have failed or fallen short. Most of us are already well aware of the areas in which we are weak. What each of us does need is family, friends, employers, and brothers and sisters who support us, who have the patience to teach us, who believe in us, and who believe we're trying to do the best we can, in spite of our weaknesses. What ever happened to giving each other the benefit of the doubt? What ever happened to hoping that another person would succeed or achieve? What ever happened to rooting for each other? . . .

Be one who nurtures and who builds. Be one who has an understanding and a forgiving heart, who looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them. . . . If we could look into each other's hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

Excerpt from "The Tongue Can Be a Sharp Sword" by Elder Marvin J. Ashton

Do We Think The Best of One Another?

Monday, June 22, 2009

Sunday, June 21, 2009

17 Reasons Why My Dadio is My Favorite!

(I think we kind of look alike?) :)


1. He loves dessert first. The man makes shakes that melt your heart.

2. He taught me how to play ball one-handed. At first I know my dad was frustrated, because I wasn’t very good, but he was so patient. He never discouraged me from improving. He stuck with me…always! That quality of sticking with me is my favorite. My Dad is my greatest fan.

3. Driving in the gas truck as a little girl with him. This has created a habit. Obviously my Dad doesn’t drive a gas truck all that often these days but my favorite time with Dad is driving. We have great discussions and those times are really where you get his undivided attention (when he’s not on the cell phone, of course). ;) I still call him when I’m driving; it is the next best thing!

4. He taught me to never turn down a calling and backs that counsel up with his own example.

5. Makes God his number one priority.

6. Loves my Mom and it is completely visible that he does.

7. He’s always seen the potential within me and pushed me to accomplish every success.

8. Openly and shamelessly brags about his kids.

9. An Amazing son. While my Dad is the youngest son, he really has always been a pillar of strength and consistency with his siblings and I’ve always admired the way he’s handled the situations he faced with siblings and parents and for the unwavering love and respect he showed his parents. I am forever grateful for his example of what a good child is throughout your life.

10. He’s always been an amazing provider for our family; even in rough times he always worked hard to support us.

11. He’s always been a worthy priesthood holder in our home and always discerning.

12. A father to any and all that come into his home. It has been amazing to watch through the years as my Dad has been a father figure to so many. I have numerous friends that keep coming back to our home just to visit with my Dad. I am simply the avenue. Ron Berry definitely always has had an open door; anyone is welcome policy that I admire greatly.

13. Waiting at the airport with a Wendy’s Spicy Chicken sandwich, fries, and a Dr. Pepper when I fly home to visit. The man spoils his daughter rotten. Being the only girl with a Dad that has a heart that expands across oceans definitely has been an amazing perk in my life!

14. Memories that will forever be in my heart and mind that really show just how loving my Dadio is. For example I remember sitting on the front row during my high school graduation looking at my dad, who was breathing “in and out” with me so I wouldn’t hyperventilate before I gave my speech.

15. Watching my Dad tear up when speaking in public. The man is a human marshmallow. Adorable!

16. The fact that he gets his hair trimmed more often than anyone I know.

17. Watching him with Avery. He and Avery remind me so much of me and my Grandpa Berry. It can bring me to tears and always makes me ecstatic when I see them together knowing that Avery gets the opportunity to be Papa’s favorite and build such a close bond.

I love my Dadio! Happy Father’s Day! You’ve indeed always been an amazing Dad, friend, and example to me and everyone you’ve come in contact with. Thanks for putting up with us and here’s to another many years full of great memories!

A Father Indeed!

Do we recognize the sacrifices that our Fathers make because they love us?

Definitely Loved (Spoiled) By My Dadio!


Hehe...love this! We all in our family know that Dad loves to spoil me...

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Hearting The Weekend

  • Golfing with KT!!! Best combo since warm DP and a chick-o-stick! (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick-O-Stick for all you that live underneath rocks).
  • The Dish Saturday morning with R & W.
  • Short lines at the grocery store.
  • Cobbler (dessert first always is the way to go...thank Jack Berry and Ron Berry for that habit) followed by lunch (Roast Beef + DP) in the park with Brooke. A communion comparable to 9 holes of golf.
  • Bringing Up Baby followed by Lemon tart (thank you JXA) and Chocolate Mousse.

Friday, June 19, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like hell underneath.

Michael Caine

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

On matters of style, swim with the current. On matters of principle, stand like a rock.

Thomas Jefferson.

HC = THE GOOD LITTLE FAIRY

Yesterday I came from the office to find that we have our very own good little fairy (notice her fairy ears--paint brushes...hehe). The dishes were washed and put away, the floors vacuumed, our books organized in our new bookshelf, the counters cleaned, and the smell of pure cleanliness (yes this is a smell to my nose). It almost brought me to tears (maybe my black heart is turning a lighter shade these days). It was a service that was unexpected but appreciated in ways I can't express! You HC, are one amazing good little fairy! Thanks!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.

Rollo May

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Monday, June 15, 2009

Good vs Evil?

In our home this Sunday it was Good vs Evil. Dark vs Light.
Obviously MP has been a better girl this week though so it is only fitting she is sporting the angelic white. ;)
With that smile I almost look innocent in black. ;)
Good and Evil co-existed yesterday quite nicely. Maybe next week we'll swap.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Saturday, June 13, 2009

What is Your Picket Fence?

Along Park Blvd there is a stretch of houses that I would deem “Picket Fence Lane”. In a car driving along Park Blvd you may not particularly notice all the picket fences as many are covered with greenery, flowers or far enough off the path that they aren’t visible to the unnoticing eye. Yet as you take a stroll along Park you find yourself on Picket Fence Lane, each stroll you find yourself noticing a new fence, a new color, blooming roses poking through, purple vines traveling along the fence line. You’ll find the traditional white wooden picket, the brown oil-strained picket, the vinyl white picket, the green metal picket (my least favorite), and then of course the hybrids (a white wooden picket gate and a light wooden fencing). Your first assumption may be that “Picket Fence Lane” must be residentially zoned to make it mandatory to have a picket fence. Mine was.


For weeks I’ve been strolling along PF Lane and pondering the picket fences, the variety, the similarities, and the question keeps coming to mind: What is it that makes everyone want the picket fence?


We have been hearing the familiar phrase of a “green house and a white picket fence” (or was it a yellow house or was that just my preference?) for years as the “dream”, the crowding jewel that you’ve met the American dream or hope. We all at one time or another have wanted the “white picket fence”, had a dream. Maybe you don’t want white anymore, maybe you want a vinyl one or a natural wooden fence, or even a chain linked fence (however ugly it might be)? Preferences change, people change, needs change. It doesn’t matter what kind of picket fence you want, what dream it is that you want, so as long as you still have a dream; a picket fence that you are hoping for and working towards. Even once we have obtained that “picket fence” we find ourselves looking towards the next “picket fence”. My “picket fence” has changed multiple times throughout my life as I’ve changed. While I may not want a traditional white wooden picket fence like I did when I was say, 13 years old, the hope for a picket fence is still burning within me. My picket fence may have orange daisies poking through or bluebells at the base, with a swinging gate. Your picket fence might be vinyl with a green hedge around it. The varieties, the similarities, don’t matter as long as you have a picket fence.


What is your picket fence?

Friday, June 12, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

My business is not to remake myself, but to make the absolute best of what God made.

Robert Browning

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

The better way to go is to allow oneself to enjoy the experience slowly, engage in the messiness to the most honest degree, and not jump to conclusions nor place men [women] in competition in your heart against each other.

-R

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

"If we approach adversities wisely, our hardest times can be times of greatest growth, which in turn can lead toward times of greatest happiness."

Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Come What May, and Love It," Ensign, Nov. 2008, 26

Sunday, June 7, 2009

2 Years @ HP Today....

I almost feel like a real grown up saying that. Where has all the time gone? The great thing is I still love my team. ;) Life moves quicker than we ever anticipate at 18....I for one could not be more excited for the "rest of my life" still.

I've been applying two conclusions as of late in my life.

1. As long as I play two sports a week I am happy/content with my week, my life, my existence. Pure Bliss! This week: ping pong, Frisbee, and golf. I feel the most at peace and close to Heaven on earth when I'm on the golf course, next to the temple of course. It is truly where I feel completely like Jess Berry.

2. Living is a PRIVILEGE whether married or single that should be fully appreciated not just in theory but in action. All too often single people view it as a death sentence but seriously it is not. (i.e. traveling, free time to become amazing people, experience amazing things, and most importantly an opportunity to serve the Lord, build up His Kingdom in a way that is only available when we are single...we can truly put our shoulder to the wheel and not worry about many other obligations that come when you become part of your own family unit). Life should always be worth living to the fullness.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Hot Dr. Pepper...In Honor of The DP Birthday Boy!

Others seem to agree J.Monson...try a Hot one on me for your birthday! ;)

Thursday, June 4, 2009

HAPPY 17TH JOSHY SQUASHY!

We sure love our baby brother! He's a stud and does the Berry name proud!

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Monday, June 1, 2009

Jess Berry Quote of The Day!

"If there’s one thing I’ve learned on this earth, it’s this: To love people better is a prayer God always answers."

Sarah Olson

See full post here.